Mariam Oni

The proliferation of the internet and social media platforms has revolutionized the way we communicate, access information, and consume entertainment. These platforms provide easy access to a wide range of content, including music videos, movies, TV shows, advertisements, and user-generated content. Unfortunately, this unrestricted access has also given rise to the widespread sexualization of content. The Nigerian new media is fast-developing, as some contents has receive international recognition, not only going viral locally. From the broad perspective, one should give kudos to the content creators, but from the kin perspective, there’s a delirium going all round, that is getting out of control, it’s time to bring it to a screeching halt!   We all know sex sells. Prostitution is the most lucrative, oldest profession with 100% guarantee profit. That in its self does summarizes the whole point. Recently, there has been growing concern about the perceived increase in sexualiza...

Developing one's self esteem is quite individualistic! let's try the following exercise and lets celebrate self! Exercise 1 Brag about yourself - Look at yourself in the mirror, or take a pen and a paper and brag about who you are and what you are. This shouldn't be difficult, there some that might still be struggling with this. There are many reason that might be cause of this. Deep hurts and pains sometimes crushes the little believe one have in oneself and elevates or pronounce the insecurities one is still haggling with. Among many other reason, is TOO MUCH HUMILITY! As humility is one major morals that's always praise, one should take into account it's excesses. While trying to be humble, it might sometimes leads to you ridiculing or belittling oneself. If you can't brag about yourself to yourself especially, you down right have low-self esteem.   Exercise 2 The Most Interesting Thing About You- This is one distinct feature of your personality, people often...

Thongs: Fashion or Foe This minimalist undergarment, known for its daring design and distinctive look, has transcended its utilitarian purpose and evolved into a symbol of sensuality and empowerment. From its origins in ancient civilizations to its status as a modern fashion statement, thongs have played a significant role in shaping the way society perceives and embraces provocative attire. Although the thong's popularity might seem like a recent phenomenon, its history traces back thousands of years. Ancient civilizations, such as the Egyptians, Greeks, and Romans, showcased evidence of early thong-like undergarments. Throughout history, variations of thongs appeared across different cultures, symbolizing various meanings ranging from practicality to status and sensuality.   In the present day, thongs continue to be an essential element in fashion, evolving in design, fabrics, and styles. High-end fashion houses incorporate thongs into their lingerie and swimwear collecti...

The new movie Barbie is yet to hit the cinema, but it's fever is all over the socials. The fashion enthusiast has been playing with colors, adorning their body in different shades of pink. Language, national ethnicity, age, body-shapes, religion is no stopping anyone to represent and display their creativity on all new media. The question is, does every woman secretly desires to be Barbie the doll? One admire and love by all? Perfect body shape and body size that cuts across all beauty standards? That one has no problem other than evil CEO   Now, let's come to the real world! The Barbie girl for life dream! Oh my! That's the new. Perfect body shape, nose, lips, the curvier the better (and here I am thinking feminism has to do with embracing beauty beyond the appearance) I guess it's not. Everyone has that one influencer that is the goal. Whether body goals, or vacationing, or fitness, or class, the luxurious lifestyle is way too enticing! Have you ever ask yourself the ...

Been a woman can be damning! it is sometime inspiring and elevating, but very uniquely challenging.  as a mother of two living in south-west Nigeria, I could have said I had it worst except for global news update, that made me realize women might be an endangered specie of the human race. In as much as there has been all sort of debate about who a woman is and the new generation bringing in on argument of gender been a spectrum, this is probably the worst time to be a woman. Embracing ones femininity is been seen as being inferior or a peon, the lowest of the low. My heart cringes at the thought of the Noesis of this woke generation   The generation has moved away from what the fight is all about, shifting into inconsequential issues, which is moving the focus away from what is needed to mere wants.  Feminism came as a result of great oppression in a patriarchal society. The question is, are we still in a patriarchal society? what do we want? what do we need? are still be...